Complex Trauma Care for Highly-Motivated Adults in Maryland.

Online EMDR & IFS therapy for high-achievers carrying childhood trauma and navigating demanding careers.

Generational Cycle Breakers

Trailblazers who’ve decided ‘the trauma stops with me’ and are rewriting family stories.

Who I Work With

Neurodivergent Innovators & Creatives

AuDHD tech & creative minds navigating masking fatigue & burnout.

Helpers & Healers with Compassion Fatigue

Therapists, nurses, first-responders, and other caretakers carrying vicarious trauma, burnout, and guilt for needing help themselves

Professional Women with Impostor Syndrome

High‑performing leaders who fear being 'found out' despite successes.

High‑Achiever 1st- & 2nd‑Gen Immigrants

Perfectionists balancing success and self‑acceptance while honoring cultural roots.

SPECIALIZED SERVICES

  • EMDR and IFS—including pre-verbal trauma processing—to heal low self-esteem, anxiety, shame/guilt, people-pleasing, difficulty setting boundaries, and relational challenges. Click here to learn more.

  • Autism/ADHD-adapted protocols with sensory-smart pacing and executive-function support. Click here to learn more.

  • Work on relational injuries, insecure attachment, fear of rejection/abandonment, boundary challenges & trust issues—individual & couples therapy. Click here to learn more.

  • Support for burnout, moral injury, vicarious trauma, and compassion fatigue—stabilization, processing, integration, and meaning-making practices. Click here to learn more.

Hi, I’m Afa

I’ll help you turn survival patterns into life-affirming growth.

Most people who find me already know where they’re stuck. They’re introspective and self-aware. They’ve read the books, tried the apps, maybe seen a therapist before but nothing has felt solid or lasting yet. They’re ready to dig deeper and address the roots of anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, or relationship pain.

In our work, we’ll gently trace how earlier experiences and relationships still impact you today. Going beyond talk alone, we’ll use proven, neurobiologically informed methods—EMDR, parts-work (Internal Family Systems), and mindfulness-based tools—to calm the nervous system and let outdated stories you believe about yourself fade into the past. Along the way, you’ll master emotion regulation, soften harsh self-talk, release chronic stress, and build relationships that feel safe and nourishing.

I’m a first-generation immigrant, a generational cycle breaker in my family, and a former humanitarian-aid worker who has lived and worked around the globe. Moving among cultures taught me curiosity, openness, and how to make people feel at home—skills I now bring to therapy. Whatever background you come from, you’ll have a warm, judgment-free space to show up exactly as you are.

Afa Alizada, LCPC, NCC

1. Human Connection First

Warmth, empathy, and genuine partnership are the strongest predictors of progress in therapy. In an AI-fueled world, we build a trusting human connection before anything else.

4. Cultural & social-justice lens

Mental health doesn’t exist outside sexism, racism, ableism, homophobia, or other forms of oppression. We name those forces, honor survival strategies, and avoid pathologizing you for adapting to an unjust system.

2. Safety-paced trauma work

I follow the three-phase model— stabilization → processing → integration—so we move at a pace your nervous system can handle.

3. Body-focused, evidence-based

EMDR, IFS parts work, mindful movement, and other somatic tools reach the nervous system where talk alone can’t—and prevent re-traumatizing “story-telling.”

5. Structured yet flexible

We co-design clear goals and milestones, then adjust session-to-session to meet you where you are.

MY APPROACH

6. Gentle challenge, real change

I respect your autonomy while offering nudges and practical experiments that turn insight into everyday relief and growth.